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When, oh when?

At what point in your marriage/relationship did ex's STOP contacting you or your hubby?

This seems neverending! It's never emails or texts or phone calls saying "hey, let's get back together" but the "I just wanted to say hi and see how you are doing" crap never seems to end!!! It's CONSTANT! If it's not someone on my side, it's on his! Some of these people have even been told that we don't really feel it's appropriate to maintain a friendship with them now that we're married. 

I mean seriously!

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With the exception of the family friend, I think it would be best if you both respectfully asked your exes to stay out of your lives. It's time to move on and there really are more people in the world they can be friends with.

I don't think it's good to leave doors open like that when they could be closed. If they won't let you quietly shut the door on them, then that should be a signal to you that you should SLAM that door and RUN the other way!
I agree BUT the family friend is the one being relentless!!!
O. That's trickier then. It might even be worse than the others because she may feel that she has a "right" to your husband, in whatever way. I wouldn't let that lie around, though. You guys really gotta take action, whatever it is you come up with.
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