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When, oh when?

At what point in your marriage/relationship did ex's STOP contacting you or your hubby?

This seems neverending! It's never emails or texts or phone calls saying "hey, let's get back together" but the "I just wanted to say hi and see how you are doing" crap never seems to end!!! It's CONSTANT! If it's not someone on my side, it's on his! Some of these people have even been told that we don't really feel it's appropriate to maintain a friendship with them now that we're married. 

I mean seriously!


UGH! That is how I am! He FEELS that same way but doesn't take action.

I do have one ex that I am friends with. I dated him briefly 10 years ago and since then, he has been a real friend to me. I rarely ever talk to him or anything. There was never a point when I was in love with him or wanted to be with him long-term or anything. He was a major asset to me when I needed him and had no one else (this was waaaaay past our dating). I think we will lose contact just because, but I think it would be really bad of me to tell him to bug off. He doesn't call. He doesn't email. He doesn't anything, so I don't feel right sending him a random email saying go away.

Any others were told in no uncertain terms!
Yeah I'd make my hubs take action!! Better to piss off an ex than the wife.
For real. Which side is his bread buttered on, really!!
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September 2007

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